Comments on: My Miscarriage Story

By: Reeva

Reeva — Fri, 15 Oct 2021 19:06:33 +0000

ThaNk you for sHaring your story!i know it will help many other women! I have 3 BEAUTIFUL BABIES but also have gone through 4 MISCARRIAGES and know it is not easy.

By: Ks

Ks — Mon, 19 Oct 2020 15:58:44 +0000

ThaNk you from the bottom of my heart so much for sharing your story for those of us who still cannot or don’t know how. I am grateful for you.

By: Emily

Emily — Thu, 15 Oct 2020 22:05:08 +0000

thank you so much for sharing. You are amazing!! I felt so many of these feelings when I had three miscarriages. It was heartbreaking.

By: Cassandra Bizon

Cassandra Bizon — Thu, 15 Oct 2020 15:24:16 +0000

Thank you for Sharing your story. I’m so sorry for the lose you went through. One of the Reasons im drawn to you is the grace you show everyday To Your faMily and so many other people. Catie bizon

By: Kristine Clark

Kristine Clark — Thu, 15 Oct 2020 15:19:16 +0000

I am so sorry about your losses. I know all too well how difficult each one is. my husband and I tried for years to get pregnant, only to find out that we struggled with infertility. we went through treatments, IUI, a chemical pregnancy, a miscarriage/D&E, and one round of IVF to have our first daughter in 2016. When we decided to start trying for our second, we thought we understood what the issues were, but it took three rounds of IVF treatment to have our second daughter in 2019.

After years of being unable to get pregnancy without fertility treatment, we found out we were pregnant naturally in December 2019, only to have another miscarriage/D&E just before Christmas. That D&E resulted several months of issues before my levels finally returned to normal. Then, in July 2020, we found out we were pregnant again naturally, but after hearing a heartbeat at 7 weeks, the heartbeat disappeared at our 8 week appointment – another D&E.

I believe that we are destined to have three children, and we are getting ready to try one more round of IVF in the next month. Unfortunately, IVF is extremely costly, and I don’t know that we will be able to afford more than that. I also don’t know that my heart can handle the devastation that comes with the miscarriages and failed fertility treatment.

Pregnancy loss and fertility treatment are such lonely processes, and unfortunately, unless you have been through one/both, it is so hard to understand. With each round of treatment and each loss, a little piece of my heart went with it. I am beyond blessed to have my two little girls, but I worry that I will always be disappointed that we couldn’t have more if this last round doesn’t work out.

Thank you for sharing your story and helping to normalize this conversation and these feelings. It means so much to the rest of us.

By: Ashley Thibeault

Ashley Thibeault — Thu, 15 Oct 2020 14:54:29 +0000

Kailee,
I just wAnted To say THank you for being so brave and honest about something so persoNal. I was in teArs reading your post. I’m so sorry that you had to experience this pain. I too believe that we are meant to go through trials so that we can leArn compassion and help others when They go through their own. Thank you for sharing your sTory.
Ashley

By: kailee wright

kailee wright — Fri, 09 Feb 2018 20:43:19 +0000

In reply to Noelle. Noelle! Thank you so much for your sweet words! I hate that you've been through this pain as well, but think its so important to be able to share and create a support system! Sending all my love to you and your precious miracle babe!

By: Noelle

Noelle — Mon, 05 Feb 2018 04:03:23 +0000

Kailee I haven’t been reading your blog very long but I just found this post and I am so sorry you went through this. Thank you for being willing to share your story. It’s such a shame that miscarriage and infant loss is not discussed very much.
I had the easiest first two pregnancies ever. We started for baby 3 in July 2015 and had three miscarriages. At 11 weeks, 9 weeks, and 10 weeks. My husband and I were devastated. My husband was ready to say that if the next try didn’t work he would not do it again out of fear and grief. I guess, like you, something changed in my body and I can no longer stay pregnant on my own. We finally went to a fertility dr. I was tested for everything they could think of, it all came back normal, so they medicated me for everything they could think of anyway. I got pregnant in 2017 and we now finally have our precious baby number 3. I also spent the entire pregnancy checking for blood at every trip to the bathroom. Every day I look at him and feel so grateful he is alive and healthy. Thank you for sharing your experience, I’m certain you’ve helped and comforted many people.

By: kailee wright

kailee wright — Mon, 28 Aug 2017 18:52:34 +0000

In reply to Kayle V.. Oh I am so so sorry for the pain I know you are going through. My misacarriages were some of the hardest and lowest points of my life, but I know you will pull through. Prayers + love for you!

By: Kayle V.

Kayle V. — Thu, 20 Jul 2017 15:24:36 +0000

I have been a long time follower and love watching your growing family. This post has really touched me and have read it many times. The first time I had read it I wasn’t even trying to get pregnant and now that I am married and wanting kids it is hitting home. My husband and I had been trying for over a year and eventually did our first round of IUI, it worked but I was still nervous. Yesterday we found out we miscarried and totally devastated. I had a feeling something was wrong but did not want to acknowledge it. This morning the only thing I wanted to do was read this blog post to not feel alone. Thank you for putting yourself out there to help others.